New York City is famous for its energy, lights, and nonstop lifestyle. But when I read that it’s the worst U.S. city for dating, I was both surprised and a little sad. With so many people and possibilities, you’d think love would be easy to find. Instead, it seems that in the middle of all the noise, real connection is getting lost.

This story made me feel a mix of emotions — disappointment, but also understanding. I imagine how lonely it must feel to live in such a big, exciting place, yet struggle to find something as simple and human as love. The idea that there are “too many choices” or “no work-life balance” shows how modern life, even in amazing cities, can sometimes pull people apart instead of bringing them together.

To me, this story is about more than just dating — it’s about the cost of a fast-paced lifestyle. In New York, everything moves so quickly: careers, conversations, even relationships. But love needs time, patience, and presence. That’s why smaller cities like Seattle are becoming better places for dating — they give people space to slow down and truly connect.

Reading this made me think about what really matters in life. Success and excitement are great, but without meaningful relationships, something feels empty. I hope people in New York — and in other busy cities — can find a way to slow down, look up from their screens, and make real connections. Because in the end, love shouldn’t have to be a miracle.